Romantic thoughts abound in February. Thatâs unsurprising considering itâs Valentineâs Day, but love it or hate it, the holiday always drums up those âsweetheartâ feelings of passionate love. Which is probably why Iâve never really been into Valentineâs Day all that much. Iâm not saying I donât like affection or romance. I just dislike the mushy-gushy, âHallmark Channelâ brand of romance. Their supermodel, nit-wit couples are too obsessed with finding that âmagic sparkâ for my tastes. Because actual true love requires commitment - nitty-gritty (sometimes uncomfortable) commitment.
Which is why, when it comes to romance, I like these other fictional couples a lot better. Not only are they affectionate and self-sacrificing but model what godly love looks like to me.
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1. Walle and Eve - Walle, (Pixar)
This was the first romance I remember ever getting into as a kid, and theyâre robots who barely speak! Walle is a timid, rusty trash compactor. Eve is a no-nonsense, sleek combat probe, yet this odd pair doesnât start off squabbling. After centuries of loneliness, little Walle understands the value of relationships. So much so that even after Eve nearly blasts him several times and accidentally wrecks his things, he goes through great pains to please and take care of her. His affections are lost on the duty-bound Eve at first. Sheâs too driven by her directives to care, but then itâs that inexplicable yet persistent quality of Walleâs love that not only wins her over. It changes her into a droid as caring as him. Your acts of love may go unnoticed or unappreciated, but itâs more important to do such things just for lovingâs sake than to be seen or thanked for it. Besides, itâs the unseen acts that says the most about how much you care. They may be robots. They follow programs, but for Walle and Eve, itâs what they do for each other that matters most.
2. Rick and Evelyn - The Mummy Trilogy, (Universal Studios)
You know what annoys me in sequels? When an established couple breaks up for some dumb reason. Not so with Rick and Evie OâConnel. At a glance, our hero and leading lady from the 90âs Mummy movie donât stand out much from other action couples. Rick is the lovable rogue, packing pistols and tommy-guns. Evie is the brainy yet clumsy damsel in distress. Pretty par for the course, but I think that opinion sells them short. For starters, they arenât instantly twitter-pated. The practical Rick and adventurous Evie challenge each otherâs opinions often and have different interests, but they get along well. Itâs only after interacting over time do we see an organic attraction grow between them. Then come the sequels. Evie still convinces her reluctant husband to go on excavations. Rick keeps trying to reign in his wifeâs impulses, but theyâre still as dedicated to each other as they were in the beginning. Love isnât just about finding common ground. Itâs also about appreciating the differences in your spouse. Mummies, scarabs, monkey-pygmy things; crazy threats are rampant for Rick and Evelyn, but their marriage is the last thing that can be threatened. I just love that so so much.
3. Carl and Ellie - Up, (Pixar)
Carl and Ellieâs story from Pixarâs Up is short. So short, itâs told in about ten minutes. Boy meets girl. Boy marries girl. They experience life together. Itâs a simple affair, but itâs that last part in their romance that touched me and a million others most. Majority of romances today fixate on bringing the lovebirds together. Seldom do they explore what comes after the first kiss. Carl and Ellie werenât immune to the flat tires, home repairs, or heartbreaks. Soon their faces wrinkle. Their hair whitens, but they donât regret a single moment together. Love is a diamond with many facets. Thereâs love as that thrilling emotion. Thereâs love as an active choice, but thereâs also another matchless side to love only appreciated by the aged. For thereâs an unrivaled intimacy thatâs only achieved after growing old with the one you love. Carl and Ellie earned that level of intimacy from their first wedding picture to their last picnic, and like most of you, I cry every time I watch it.
4. Layton and Claire - Professor Layton and the Unwound Future, (Level 5)
Professor Layton is my favorite video game character ever. Heâs firm yet forgiving. Heâs brilliant yet respectful. Most importantly, heâs a gentleman, but with all the mysteries heâs solved, one puzzle remained unanswered for a while until the seriesâ third game came around. Why is Layton the person he is? Well, it boils down to one person: Claire. Now, Iâm not going to spoil The Unwound Futureâs plot. Itâs too amazing a DS and iOS game to ruin, but I will say this. Sometimes loving someone isnât about being with them. Sometimes it means carrying on, upholding the things they valued even after theyâre gone. You see, Laytonâs origins are fraught with tragedy - his losing Claire being amongst them, but his love for her not only never died. It spurred him on. He had always been a caring young man before they met, but the way she viewed him inspired him to be more. Love is the greatest encourager. Claire loved him and knew all he could be. Layton loved her and became the gentleman she saw. For indeed, love transcends distance and time.
5. Hiccup and Astrid - How to Train Your Dragon Series, (Dreamworks)
Before getting together, dorky Hiccup always liked Astrid, but bullheaded Astrid disdained Hiccup like everyone else did in their viking village. Things changed of course. After he befriended a dragon, Hiccup later became a bold chief, and Astridâs dark demeanor steadily lightened. So what happened? Their adult selves altered drastically compared to their teens. Well, a significant factor was their positive influence on each other. Havenât you noticed that itâs Astrid who usually asks the perfect question to rejuvenate Hiccupâs broken confidence? Did you notice Hiccupâs patient streak rubbing off on Astrid? You see, a healthy relationship is supportive, not domineering. Itâd be easy for the brash Astrid to henpeck Hiccup or for Hiccup to resign himself under her thumb. Yet thatâs not what happened. Astrid never undermines Hiccupâs leadership. She helps build it, and Hiccupâs subtler strength doesnât squelch Astridâs passions. He turns her ferocity toward seeking peaceful solutions over fights whenever optional. As God intends for every husband and wife, they became stronger individuals as a pair. Because love can take whatâs already good and turn it into something marvelous.
6. Caleb and Cathrine - Fireproof, (Sherwood Productions)
Talk about dysfunctional. In Fireproof, Caleb and Catherine are neck deep in a loveless marriage. Cathrine nags Caleb. Caleb demands Catherineâs respect. Itâs a hot mess. So why would these two be among my favorite couples? Well, remember how I dislike pleasure-centered romances? Caleb and Catherineâs story accurately portrays why those chick-flick relationships fail, yet it also presents the only remedy. Calebâs father challenged him to save their marriage through a âlove dareâ, but the problem wasn't solved by rekindling âbutterflyâ feelings with gifts or niceties. Rather, their superficial love needed a significant replacement: unconditional love. Marriage does not live by kisses alone. It lives by proactive decisions. You must choose to love the other, even when theyâre unlovable. Purest love isn't dictated by what someone does or doesnât do for you. Such a love is forgiving, patient, and divine, and itâs the same brand of love Jesus had for us. âWhile we were still sinners, Christ died for us,â (Romans 5:8). Caleb and Catherineâs relationship is horrible at the outset, but once they let Godâs love redefine what true love really means, it turned into something lovelier than anything on earth.
Happy Valentineâs Day!
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